Yes that is a good perspective Catherine. While some of us may wish not to share very sacred or intimate moments, you are right, in that some may feel their deep feelings or grief is totally appropriate by the examples others have set. I think we are all moving away from the old idea, "It's just a dog/cat/(or any other species). Get over it!" And instead truly honouring them as special companions in our lives.
You do make a good point.
You do make a good point.