I know, Ruth (and Catherine) that's how I feel; never called myself an 'owner'.
I never felt as if I owned Misty, like I own a car, or a pair of boots.
It didn't feel like I was a 'mother' to her either, although sometimes I got vague feelings that she was a kind of mother to me! But that might just be my weird psychology at work! lol
It felt more as if she was my sister. In some ways (me being weird again) she felt like an elder sister.
But she was a wonderful Soul Companion.
Sally-Cat feels like a friend whom I am helping out.
I never felt as if I owned Misty, like I own a car, or a pair of boots.
It didn't feel like I was a 'mother' to her either, although sometimes I got vague feelings that she was a kind of mother to me! But that might just be my weird psychology at work! lol
It felt more as if she was my sister. In some ways (me being weird again) she felt like an elder sister.
But she was a wonderful Soul Companion.
Sally-Cat feels like a friend whom I am helping out.