How are you and how was your day and whatever...

[Catherine]

It sounds like he is an old man who is dying. He hasn't changed and it is best to leave him to other people who are trained to care for someone like that. I doubt he has much time left. He may still be angry, but he probably doesn't have the strength to act on the anger.
Some memories are so intense that time does not weaken the emotions. It is best to avoid anything that brings them up.

You are safe and have a good life where you are now. That is what really matters.

Take care and keep Suzy close. She will sense any danger and will protect you.