03-14-2021, 02:44 PM
(03-14-2021, 10:37 AM)Tobi Wrote:(03-03-2021, 11:33 PM)Rox Wrote: I'm too embarrassed to ask for their bank accounts with the risk of them not receiving any money for his treatments, but if people want to donate please let me know and I will ask the clinics for their bank accounts (in Romania they're IBAN) and their preference for the reference.
Why would asking them for their bank accounts be embarrassing? I am sure they would understand that a crowd-funding appeal has a risk of gaining few or no contributions, but you wanted to pay any possible contributions directly to them, no matter how small or large?
I can't understand why that would be an issue.
Because I would be asking them to treat him without the guarantee that I can pay them back and I don't want to cause problems for them. they're really great doctors and huge animal lovers, and they have been very understanding, treating him and letting me owe them a debt for a few days or a week, and they were willing to experiment with various treatments and help my boy when other doctors said that there's not much left to do, so I have a lot of gratitude and respect for them and don't want to make their life anymore complicated than it has to be or waste their time. And while they are willing to receive payment into their bank account, they prefer cash. There's also an issue of having to check donations every time and while that may not sound like asking much from them, they're super busy, I kid you not there have been days when I waited in line 3-5 hours before we got in.
